Introduction to Casa Del Curandero

You, Yourself

You are beautiful

Dream It

Destiny

Believe Nothing

Don't get discouraged

Aim High

Do not chase people

Willing to let go

Past for a Reason

Your past is your past for a reason, because it wasn't important or special enough to become your future.

Love Yourself

Love yourself and be awake today, tomorrow, always. First establish yourself in the way, then teach others, and so defeat sorrow. To straighten the crooked you must first do the harder thing--straighten yourself. You are the only master. Who else? Subdue yourself and discover your master.
Buddha

Believe Nothing

Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.
Buddha

Soulmate

A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks as we do theirs. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.Richard Bach

Stop The Bleeding

“You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, with alcohol, with drugs, with work, with cigarettes, with sex, but eventually, it will all ooze through and stain your life. You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past, the memories, and make peace with them. Iyanla Vanzant

Happy Pursuit

Everyone has a right to be happy. While life has its ups and downs being happy is your right as a person and you and only you are responsible for that happiness. No other person can make you happy if you are not happy with yourself and you situation. It is your responsibility to fix yourself, change your situations and claim your happiness in life.

You are never responsible for the happiness of another person if they are not responsible in the first place for it themselves. Take care of yourself body, mind and soul don't expect someone else to fill those voids or fix those problems.


Claim your happiness starting today and have no regrets accept you have a limited time on this ride called life milk it for all it worth and live it fully.

Have you claimed your right to happiness? I claim my right to happiness daily.

Self Advocacy

power and control chart

There is a point in time when you make a choice not to be taken advantage of or discounted. You stop being an accessory or appendage and no longer live in the shadow of those persons/families priorities.

Your view point and your choices have value and are valid, right or wrong they are yours. You can’t spend your time living for someone else’s life being there to enable any behavior that is not mutually beneficial or personally positive. There is a point when you must value the best asset you have and that is you. You are the only person who can make the right decisions to live a happy productive valued life with positive impact on a personal level that when you lay your head down at night you feel like a job well done that day.

Learn the word “NO”, it will not make you a bad person it is not a bad word it is just a word like “YES”. We tend to put negative value on “NO” for no reason other than when it is said to you ego gets upset and you feel as if you are a bad person. Why? all perception, if someone saw you walking out a door that lead to a 40 foot drop you would not feel bad about the telling you no because it benefited you. But there is the perception when you use no for yourself to keep you from doing something you don’t want to do for another person or family you take their perception and live out their bruised ego and it makes you feel bad. You must look at saying no as you giving your self a warning not to open that door and drop 40 feet. It really has no power that you do not give it. Don’t substituted “YES” for “NO” then you really start to skew you perception of right and wrong in your life choices.  No matter how much you say yes in a certain way or tone the people hearing will only hear yes not that you wanted the yes to be taken as no.

Advocate for yourself as you would for anyone one who is in dire need of help and is not being heard. Be your own champion and understand that being strong does not mean you are selfish but you are strong enough to know your limits, strengths and faults. Speak clearly and say what you mean, use your perspective don’t try to introduce the perspective of those you are going to be speaking to because you can’t and never will be able to know their perception of your actions or words. If you invest in the outcome then you have already lost. The only person in this world you will ever be able to heal or change is yourself no matter how much love you poor into relationships or situations until you are honest with yourself nothing will ever change for you.